This, somehow, doesn't seem to be right. Well, for a time, I think it's common to every relationship(I am particular to a relationship b/w a boy & a girl here :). Boys normally misconceive it as love and often face this situation many times - a day, some times.
But another thing I perceived is that every-time only I needed to talk (with her, of course). Be it my concern or her, it was somehow made my worry. There could be multiple reasons to it. First, I guess, she's been considered too authoritative. Second, I am considering myself gloomy, or, third, that's the way it is, to which I disagree. That leaves me with first & second points. In any of the two cases, it's an imbalance, which can harm the relationship (I still wonder if I can use the term for this situation). A few days back, I came across an email discussing the same issues. Author talks a lot about the problems & consequences and then concludes with following statement: "Of all the effort and money spent for a girl, If you spend even 10% of it for a boy (get him a drink, or plan some outing), you'll find a life-long friend. For (omniscient)girls, please tell the guy that you are not interested in him."
Hmm, that's it.
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Well all the things mentioned above are true... but, I guess, she loves me... ;)